INFJ Life Advice | Why You Should Be Broadening Your Life BIG TIME - videolink in the bio
In this INFJ Life Advice Video I focus on the fact that we as INFJ tend to end up with a very "tight" life so to say, a small group of friends, a small group of hobbies and a rather small expectation for our life.
One of the negative consequences of this is that we project so much on the few things in our life. We need these people, things and places to be what our imagination wants them to be and get discouraged and disappointed if they fall short of that.
What we neglect to see though is that it's much more likely to find what we want if we broaden our circle more, not just in friends, but in activities, places and things
We don't know what we don't know and the more things you allow to enter your life the bigger the chances that you will gain a new reference point that will help you to bring your imagination more and more to life.
An example I mention in the video is our expectation of a chair. If we have one room with a chair that this chair has to be everything we need to be because if it's not there is nothing left, there is no other chair and a chair is a pretty big thing in a room.
But if we keep creating a whole apartment around this room, a house or even a city we will find a chair that will resemble more of the thing we are looking for and still appreciate the chair in our first room for what it is and not what we want it to be.
Life is a wonderful thing my friends and broadening it, although it might seem like work and useless in the beginning, will brighten up your life more than you could ever imagine.
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