Ive spent so many years like so many other people feeling like my worth revolved around and was reflected by those around me. Growing up its always been a fear AND insecurity of mine to loose people.
The last few years taught me a few other lessons and brought me to them. My heart, hard work, dedication, and my self worth will never be taken from me, and if its too much for people thats ok.I have chosen to no longer take it personal, which is the most empowering feeling I could have imagined, But I also will no longer waste energy or give more energy into anything that doesn’t honor those efforts. ♥️💪🏼 You decide what you get. ⚡️🧚🏻♂️ Dont ever loose who you are in others.
It didn’t really matter much anymore who she used to be. She reminds herself of her vision, even when others cant see it, even when others dont get it. Its dangerous and easy to get lost in the opinion of others.🧚🏻♂️ You may find in growing seasons of your life you may experience moments that will require you to rebuild yourself!!! Trust the process, create the space you need to grow unapologetically. You have the right to keep your space free of negativity, judgement and you must move on from people, and situations that drain you. Growing and healing are not an over night process, give yourself time to heal. 🤟🏻🧚🏻♂️
Flashback🦄 This message is for anyone looking for a good reason to commit to themselves and to their goals👌🏻⚡️. Now this message is especially for anyone allowing ANY internal or outside negative talk to prevent them from even starting their dreams.No one who ever set out to accomplish something great did it perfectly, and they absolutely didn’t start off with any type of special pixie dust, and while we all have different situations and adversities I see those who continue to succeed have grit, and determination and they put their dreams to the front line. ♥️🧚🏻♂️This kind of vulnerability can be rewarding, it can allow you to build a community of like minded people. By facing your fears head on you will see what works and what doesn’t. If your a trailblazer it will give you speed, but there are a few down sides I want to warn you about. If you let others dictate if and how you show up, it will risk everything for you. It will cause you to doubt yourself, and for some of you, thats all it will take to take that dream away from you. 2nd You cant win a race if your looking at everyone else’s race. Decide YOUR pace, do yourself a favor and get REAL with yourself, if you look next to you and focus on the person going slower wondering if they know better than you, you loose focus, you loose trust in your abilities, you COULD TRIP. Now imagine if you compared yourself to the racer going faster than you. If you took all of your energy and stopped fighting yourself then you would become unstoppable. If you committed to showing up everyday with love, kindness, passion, dedication, endurance, accountability and a commitment to leave a positive impact every chance you get then I am here to tell you.... you will Succeed. Maybe not in the way you imagined, maybe even bigger. YOU never know 🧚🏻♂️ Its taken me several years to get where I am. And Ill never forget being crushed by people who were talking badly about me educating and asked WHAT RIGHT I had to be doing that. My answer is still the same. I will always be passionate about helping other by sharing what I know, and I am committed to being uncomfortable so my dreams can be the driver. ♥️
Create and manifest your fairytale. Every day I learn more and more about what it means to be a leader. I take the good moments, with all the others ones, and every day I show up for it because I am living my dreams along side some amazing teams. Thank you #riotsquad for being the foundation, and for all the incredible support and passion I receive from all of you. And to my team @xohairlab 🤟🏻♥️🧚🏻♂️ Thanks for creating magic along side me daily.
Rich dimensions. 💯I know natural work can often take a “back seat” to my creative color work but I have always had a passion for the bold and beautiful. This transformation made possible by @pulpriothair#faction8 and #olaplex. #xohairlab
I have something bigger than ever coming. Its something that I have dreamed about since I was little and I finally have the courage to believe in myself enough to make it a reality. You dont need everything to get where you are going. I have spent the last several years in conscious thoughts about what I feel is my purpose and how to get there and with alot of prayers I feel I finally know how, and have a solid foundation to start working towards that path. This will be a movement and it will involve ALL of you, and it will be bigger than any OF US. I cant wait to share more soon. 🤟🏻♥️🤟🏻 #IAS coming soon. @authentic.hairarmy What do you guys think we have up our sleeve?