So I liked this post earlier today because on some level it resonated with me. But later that day when I saw it again, I felt something was off.
**** The post was something about how when people treat you badly it has nothing to do with you. Normal people don’t go out intending to destroy people.**** Well one thing is right. Happy people don’t go around destroying others. But we are all human, we all fuck up. We all feel hurt. But if you feel destroyed by someone else, that's totally on you. You are 100% responsible for your life, including the way you feel when it comes to others actions.
You see, when I left my business 2 years ago, I would have been happy to share this post. It would have made my situation feel easier to deal with. Blaming someone else for the way I felt was easier than taking responsibility for my feelings. I felt helpless. But it wouldn’t have help me at all. You can’t change other people or the way they think and who am I to decide what’s right and wrong. That person destroying you most likely feels like you are attacking them. Maybe show them a little compassion, they need love more than you know. *Taking responsibility for my emotions and feelings meant, I had to make changes,
So I took responsibility,
My burn out… On me.
My Leaving my business...On me.
My shitty feelings...On me.
By being responsible,I also gained contrôle.
If I got myself to all the shitty feelings I ever felt, I can also get myself to all the good feelings I desire. There is a plus side to this taking responsibility. You can build the life you desire.
Your healing...totally you!
Your success...totally you!
Your inner peace...totally you!
Your Joy...totally you!
Your life...totally you
When you finally decide to take responsibility, you’ll never have to depend on another person or situation to make or break you.
You my dear have all the power to be happy and successful in all your endeavours.
#youare100percentinchargeofyourlife #compassion #youhavethepower #cocreation