The one thing I needed the most when I was young and full of me opportunities, was that sacred Morning Me Time.
Oh the horror... if someone dared to invade my silence-space back then... Well, let's just say it was not a pretty sight.
After my kids were born, I still need that silence, and my coffeee time is still sacred (although I'm much less scary now... I think).
So, given only these 2 options, I'd take the mild-silence-warmish one in a heartbeat.
What about you?