I been drinking watermelon ... at a bar by myself. Why? Well bc I prioritize my own turn-on, my own pleasure, and believe that we must romance ourselves if we want anyone else to. When was the last time you took yourself out on a date? Does the idea make you uncomfortable? Bc honestly, all discomfort is temporary & if you're willing to consider breathing through it, you can come out the other side feeling proud, fierce, independent, and resilient. Light your own fire , baby!