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I actually had a really #selfinspiring thought earlier today.
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I knew I was going to be in the area and near where my friend lives. So I thought I would ask if she wanted to grab dinner tgt. I know it was kinda last minute, so I didn't place any expectations whatsoever that she might be available.
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And it got me thinking...
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When was the last time you actually did something genuinely and without any hidden agendas?
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I want to pose this question and also as a challenge to some of you.
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I know what I am talking about because I have been that guy before.
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There were times in the past when I would only meet someone, or hang out with someone only if there was something I needed or something that I could get out of the meeting.
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That attitude was also one of my greatest failures and downfall.
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I didn't have a lot of friends & respect in the end.
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I mean...my personality is one thing. Sure, not everybody will like me. That's fine.
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But I also learned the most important lesson.
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You and I can actually hang out without actually having any expectations or agendas.
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I certainly have no agendas.
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That said, I can't expect others to be the same as me. I can't control their actions or thoughts.
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But I know I can control mine.
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