You know the thing with you meet a guy, you two hit it off, you hang out and then out of nowhere you’re hit with a bunch of anxiety about him texting you back or not? Yeah me too. It’s not about the guy either. Plot twist... it’s about you!
When we feel fearful or anxiety about a new love interest it’s most likely because we feel unworthy for the love we are trying to call into our lives. It’s also a sign we are projecting the lack of love, attention, validation we feel onto this new person. The new person is actually irrelevant because they are external. And external things or people can never fill a whole inside of us. We are really searching for ourselves to give us the love, attention and validation we seek. •••
If you’re in the anxiety black hole about a dude or over analyzing texts with girlfriends, step away from your phone. I’m talking new relationship anxiety on the blog today and how you can heal. Link in the bio to check it out! 📷: @guysinanian_ ,from our time in Hampi, India.