Once in a while, I develop a sense of appreciation of someone so strong which it turn into a crush.😍 The spectrum of this feeling can be varies from simply having a butterfly feeling when I am talking to them to severe which affecting my normal daily operation, like obsessive stalking on their social media profiles, messaging them constantly for attention, and daydreaming that they were in fact feeling the same way and they would come run to me and express how much they actually like me with some passionate kisses after. Lol…😅 ❤🍐🍑
This sounds all exciting but when it comes to the stage I realised it’s all in my own head, and he has absolutely no idea or even no intention to know and react on craziness, that could turn into troublesome. 🙄🙄 🍒🦄
My usual ways to overcome this are, first, ACKNOWLEDGE 🤔whenever I am having a thought of them, e.g. “mm.. His face is gorgeous..indeed..”, then, try to IDENTIFY🧐what kind of feeling I am having at the moment (according to Dr. Alan Watkins there are 34,000 type of feelings) :- Am I feeling Lonely? Sad? Lost? Or am I feeling Sexual? Energetic? Desire? This could take awhile and once I could identified the feeling, I could then explore the reaction toward this feeling within me, finally, take ACTION 😏on this feeling.
If the feeling is on the -ve (universe map of feeling helps), then I will package it and seek help to overcome them by talking to my therapist, or have a good cry, or talking about it with my troupe of sisters 🧚♀️. If the feeling is on the +ve spectrum, I would embrace them, e.g. if I am feeling sexual, it turns into a motivation to take care of myself, on my appearance or my health (exercising), or if I am feeling energetic, I tend to be more creative, so I turn to my writing (like now), singing, dancing.💃 🏐
So, you see, it is not all bad to have a crush on someone even if he doesn’t like you OR when you are already with someone. It could be healthy too.
I love you all awesome nerds ❤❤
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