Day.... What will you decide? Will you decide today is the day, the day to let the past go, let the hurt go, let the resentment go that you have for family or old boyfriend, girlfriend, ex husband or ex wife? Or will you choose to be a martyr and play the sad victim card?
I know all about being a martyr, I played that card for two or three years after I left my daughters dad who abused me mentally, physically and emotionally for five years. Only to almost kill me on April 1, 2010 when he hit me, pushed me threw things at my body and I had international bleeding but didn’t know it for three days because I was running on adrenaline until I got to a safe place. So I had every reason to hate the guy right? yes! Except my hate for him wasn’t hurting him, he didn’t even care that I hated him. However it was hurting my marriage, my life and I was pregnant and extremely sick. I now believe I was as sick as I was because I was so full of hate and anger. However I learned to let it all go and have never ever felt better.
I can now have a conversation with him without feeling ill or hateful towards him. And wait for it.... It feels great! Because I am not full of hate or anger, I don’t spend my life dwelling on what he did to me years ago because it’s in the past. I have forgiven him. I have never told him that, but I have.
So my question to you is, what way will you go when you get off The Ferris whee? Will you choose to let go of resentment and anger from the past? Will you move forward into a bright beautiful future or will you wallow in the past? If today’s message resonates with you or you know someone it does, will you please let them know about the book that saved my life. It’s by @kristinbartoncuthriell and it’s called The Snowball Effect; How to Build Positive Momentum in Your Life
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