S O F T N E S S
I’ve been working on the softer side of things. Forgiveness. Gratitude. Ease.
All my life I’ve felt I had to be tough, to get through hard times, the struggles. I’ve been told I’m badass, I’ve been praised for being strong countless times & I have equated that to being hard. Taking no bullshit doesn’t mean that you need to respond to the world tersely
Quick reactions often wind up being unwise. Sitting with ourselves actually gathers different kind of strength; acknowledging unsavory habits. Witnessing initial thoughts as opposed to acting immediately grants so much priceless space to discern between what’s real & what is fabrication
Trust me, I have struggled with this. Last year I went through a severely rebellious stage. Rebelling against myself, true loves, &my own path, out of fear. It’s as if my grieving was delayed by my own ego. However there is no timeline on grief, even here I can practice #softness & #SelfForgiveness 🙏🏽
Feeling a massive shift, having clear intentions for healing. I have prayed to the divine and given my heart up to regaining purity. These prayers been answered in quirky wonderful ways. Situations have given me the chance to eat my words; which will I choose? Will I choose joy in these moments? Or will I continue a path of #SelfDestruction by acting out of this fear state, holding onto shame & guilt over mistakes...
This takes us out of alignment with our truth, waking in love is the only way to become realigned with our power.
Softness is powerful.
Love is strength.
Be soft with yourself. Holding onto doubts and worry will only create more madness, and trust me here as well, the world is chaotic enough, we do NOT need to create more drama and work for ourselves. Stay in your softness, take time to heal. This will make you strong.
You can do anything, but not everything.
Did you learn? That’s the important part. Shift the guilt into praise. Change the inner narrative. Then go take a bath, have a meditation, do something YOU love that nurtures and nourishes your soul.
This softness will make you strong.
Stay wild & soft my friends