Here's the thing...it goes both for women and men...CHARACTER wins in the end. When push comes to shove and real shit matters...CHARACTER wins. •
So you want to find the right relationship? Strive to be as authentic as possible and a person of integrity. All the other shit is facade and we grow out of it. At least the good people who are worth a damn do. •
Whenever I meet a woman I ALWAYS take a mental note how quickly she asks me what I do for a living. She asks me too quickly she is either fishing for conversation or is trying to qualify me. When there is a real connection there won't be any qualifying. It won't be what you do but WHO you are. All the extracurriculars won't matter. It will be about your Soul. Heart. Mind. And the type of honesty about who you are that you bring to the table.