An Open Letter (to the man who helped me find my confidence again): ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ When you found me I was broken. I’d lost my drive, sexiness, and confidence in who I was, as a woman. The past 6 months were a rough patch in my life. So many changes were happening, but not enough all at the same time. And then my heart was shattered by someone I trusted and cared about... And that’s where you found me, in that weak and vulnerable state. And I’m so glad you did. You gave me an ear to vent to about my broken heart. You gave me your home to stay in when everything felt like it was crumbling around me. And you gave me a safe place to explore and find myself again, to experiment with my sexuality, and to forget the person who hurt me. You helped me rediscover my confidence. And for all this I can’t thank you and love you enough.
It’s hard to admit sometimes, as a woman, that we’ve lost our confidence. That we don’t feel sexy, for whatever reason, feels like we’ve failed. And when we’ve lost it, or someone takes it away from us, it’s hard to find it again. But we have to, we have to reconnect with that person deep inside, while also becoming the person we want to be. And all of that comes from within us. We have to pull ourselves out of that rough patch. We have to remember that our confidence comes from inside us, and no man can give it to us... But sometimes it takes the right man to provide what the wrong one couldn’t, a caring and safe environment. And when this happens it makes it a hell of a lot easier to remember just how damn sexy you are and to be proud of that. , MalieAnn