I agree that sometimes you need to go to them but most times you should be careful, Don't force them, don't push them, the only thing you can do is create a path that leads to you and if they choose to come, they will if not you rest, relax and know that it's not your fault they chose to stay. You are still the best.
Someone who makes you feel like the world is at your feet, someone who makes you feel good and happy, someone who truly cares and shows you in words and actions, someone who is there even when you are fine on your own. Don't be afraid to want more. Don't be afraid to wait for who you want simply because you don't want to be single. Don't settle, choose to be satisfied.