I’m very triggered by this situation.
Over the weekend I’d seen a clip where Cardi B was about to perform for rolling loud and Offset (her ex husband) came to ambush her with performative nonsense and apologies to “take him back” after being caught cheating several times. The video got me so angry bc a lot of people called it #trueLove, #cute & #romantic (If you belong in this category, honestly seek help!)
That being said, here are common tactics of manipulators:
- Bullying, threatening
- pleading, begging and repeating the same action over and over!
- appealing to a higher authority i.e calling friends, village people, fans, supporters and family to cape/talk/beg the “offended”
- gas lighting & projecting
- Empty promises
- misquoting, name calling & personal attacks
- guilt tripping, lying either by omission
Emotional manipulation is not to be taken lightly! Publicity stunt or not, I hope she is okay.
What are your thoughts on this?👇🏾
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