Ok so I keep referring to ‘these last 3 (except now 4!) years,’ which basically came as the result of a breakup that changed the course of things, ya know, as breakups typically do ♀️
Anyway, in that time I’ve learned a LOT. About the world, about myself, yada yada.. But one of the most important things I’ve learned in studying the psychology of the mind, and the subconscious, and the metaphysical laws of our universe is this: surrender is key And it’s something you hear all the time (well, in my world I was always hearing it, I don’t know lol) but you just roll your eyes at it and keep stressing away. But MAN, every single time I do surrender, the outcome is a positive one.
For someone who only recently learned to manage her control freak ways, surrender was a word that was never in my vocabulary. But now I can talk myself off any ledge if I remember how well it always goes when I just throw it up and take a step back. Sometimes though, like today, it took me way too long to remember. Darn it 🤨 Old habits die hard ♀️