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NEW EPISODE: This week, Ashley and Marcy discuss the problematic rhetoric that suggests wives have to endure pain and suffering in order to have love and a successful marriage. Marcy is adamant about this not being true. While her marriage isn’t perfect, neither her nor her husband suffer to have each other’s love. Yes, they support each other, and sometimes one has to be stronger than the other, but they grow together. They build together. They make sacrifices that are necessary for a marriage but not in a way that is painful. 🗣 Love does not hurt. Although this long suffering and pain is often glorified in the media and in many every day relationships, this doesn’t have to be the case. Listen in as they discuss what a healthy Christian relationship entails and what we can do to challenge the painful narrative associated with Black Love. What do you think are characteristics of a healthy Christian relationship?
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Ephesians 5:33 “However, each one of you must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.” .
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#schoolinlifepod #podcast #blacklove #blacklovecouples #blackloveexists #lovedoesnthurt #allblackeverything #wocpodcasts


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All of the threats. All of the lies. All of the manipulation to keep you from seeing the truth. The truth that you have the choice, if you're willing to make it yours again. Don't give anyone the choice to determine the life you'll lead. Take it back. It's not an easy task, but it's always worth it. .
#sistersurvivors , can you comment on here and tell someone out there who needs to here it that they CAN do this? That they can leave? That they can take back control?
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#domesticviolence #dv #domesticviolencesurvivor #teendatingviolence #abuse #violenceagainstwomen #teenrelatinoships #truelove #lovedoesnthurt #breakthecycle #nomoreoneinfour #physcialabuse #narcabuse #narcissisticabuse #narc #emotionalabuse #financialabuse #psychologicalabuse #verbalabuse #sociopath #narcissist #psychopath #mentalabuse #togetherwearestrong


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Love is Not #herbluewings


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"I want to love even if it fucks me up" - Ankur Kaushik
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#love #lovedoesnthurt #lovehealsall #belove


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Best advice ever. Watch please. ❤️💕 Thank you Trent @trentshelton 🤗 You should go follow him if you haven’t already.


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Our prayers and deepest condolences are with the family and loved ones of Soror Aisha Fraser Mason who recently lost her life due to a senseless act of violence.
If you or someone you know is a victim of domestic violence, please call The National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1−800−799−7233 or visit their website to chat online 24/7.#AACDST #lovedoesnthurt


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Domestic violence does not discriminate. This beautiful doctor was shot and killed this evening by her estranged fiance'. Please continue to push forward my fellow Advocates. SIP my sister-friend and the others who lost their lives trying to help you. #BelieveSurvivors are #ProudSurvivor #SurvivorsAndAdvocatesWin #ProudDomesticViolenceAdvocate #GoalDigger #LoveDoesntHurt 😢👼🏿👼🏿💜 800-500-1119 Florida Domestic violence crisis line #RefuseToBeAbused


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The beauty about the process is that it helps you become the 2.0 version of yourself❤

Thank you to @livingbeautifullypeacefully and my other sister that wishes to remain anonymous that shared their stories today with us on #SurvivorStoryMonday.
My prayer is that these stories on Mondays help other women know that they are not alone. Also, that all women that have been through domestic violence and toxic relationships find the courage to SPEAK UP about it. Let's encourage each other, promote self love, and healing energy amongst one another.❤ For anybody else that wants to share their stories email me at Speakupsis@gmail.com.
#narcissist #narcissisticabuse #sociology #sociopaths #psychopath #boundaries #PhysicalAbuse #emotionalAbuse #sexualabuse #SelfLove #lovedoesnthurt
#dvsurvivors #speakoutloud #stopstigma #blessed #alive #thankyougod #ptsd #octoberisdvawarness #formeisallyearround #healingenergy #Healing #notafraid #JudgementFreeZone #unapologetic #HavingTheVictoryOverBeingTheVictim #SelfLove #domesticviolenceawarenessmonth #SpeakingIsHealing #SpeakUpSis2.0


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#SurvivorStoryMonday "Double Life"? Thank you for being so brave and courageous in sharing your story of survival sis💜

When your sister tells you her experience with domestic violence BELIEVE HER!
"Her description of violence is only the tip of the iceberg" .
When love is no longer being served we have to learn to get up from the table❤ Break the cycle of toxic relationships ❤

#narcissist #narcissisticabuse #sociology #sociopaths #psychopath #boundaries #PhysicalAbuse #emotionalAbuse #sexualabuse #SelfLove #lovedoesnthurt
#dvsurvivors #speakoutloud #cheating #blessed #alive #thankyougod #ptsd #toxicrelationships  #healingenergy #Healing #notafraid #JudgementFreeZone #unapologetic #HavingTheVictoryOverBeingTheVictim #SelfLove #domesticviolenceawareness #SpeakingIsHealing #SpeakUpSis2.0


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This was so me!! This goes for both men and women who are abused Get out while you can you are not by your self the reason I’m a @purple.runway advocate!!! #domesticviolenceawareness #lovedoesnthurt #yourbetterthanthis #whatdoesntkillyoumakesyoustronger


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This show is so on point every week! Domestic abuse be it physical, emotional or verbal sneaks up on you. You go from thinking he *hits me/pushes me/says this to me* because he loves me to - How did I let it get this far? I thank God for growth and for allowing me to find out what real love feels like. ❤️ #redtabletalk #lovedoesnthurt


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I had to share her story when she wrote it in the comments on one of the posts❤
#SurvivorStoryMonday "It gets better "

Thank you for being so brave and courageous in sharing your story of survival sis💜

When your sister tells you her experience with domestic violence BELIEVE HER!
"Her description of violence is only the tip of the iceberg" .
#narcissist #narcissisticabuse #sociology #sociopaths #psychopath #boundaries #PhysicalAbuse #emotionalAbuse #sexualabuse #SelfLove #lovedoesnthurt
#dvsurvivors #speakoutloud #stopstigma #blessed #alive #thankyougod #ptsd #abuse #pain #healingenergy #Healing #notafraid #JudgementFreeZone #unapologetic #HavingTheVictoryOverBeingTheVictim #SelfLove #domesticviolenceawareness #SpeakingIsHealing #SpeakUpSis


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🎤 The only reason to give a speech is to change the world." - Nick Morgan



During this week of incredible gratitude and thanks, I want to say thanks to all the listeners, teens, friends, schools, conferences, churches and family who have supported my speaking platform this past year. It’s been 10 years since I started speaking out on domestic violence, but it’s been one whole year since my skincare business allowed me to leave my jail job and pursue this passion of breaking the bondage some teens (and grownups) find themselves in.
Your “like”, comments and interest help to be a #voicetothevoiceless in my pursuit of breaking these chains. •


So from the bottom of my heart, I thank you. God is even bigger then my voice will ever be and I am humbled to be used by Him. #HisStory #VictimtoVictorious #purposeinthepain #stopdatingviolence #domesticviolenceawareness #domesticviolence #publicspeakers #domesticviolencespeaker #passion #beavoice #dontstaysilent #truthtalk #lovedoesnthurt #ashestobeauty #scarsarebeautiful #lovethebroken #skincareaddict #workfromhomemom #teens #jesusgirlspeaks


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This message hits real close to home for me. I know people who have been there & I have been there. I have been abused mentally verbally emotionally physically and sexually by people I thought loved me or people I thought I could change but I have learned love does not abuse or hurt. I am so blessed to say I have made it out of many situations of abuse and gotten help and have overcome those things that stay with you even when you make it out. No form of abuse is ok & I hope whoever is reading this that you will be encouraged to reach out for help before it's too late and I also want you to know that if you leave healing is not easy but it is possible & that there is life after abuse. This goes for men or women who are being abused in any form by anyone & feels stuck in the situation. If you don't have friends or family call domestic violence hotline for help.
#whenloveturnsviolent #whenlovegetsabusive
#reachout #gethelptoleave #don'twait
#lovedoesnthurt #lovedoesntabuse


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Life can be an adventure again! What are some places you’ve always DREAMED of going and seeing!? Write them down, pin photos to the wall, work towards it with intention and reward yourself with more adventures! Something that has truly helped me heal was immersing myself into the WORLD and standing in the midst of mother nature’s breathtaking environment and realizing how small and tiny I am compared to this universe and how much possibility is out there!! I’m not sure your beliefs but I feel that their is a higher power at work that is larger than all of my traumas, my past, my pain, my anxiety, my ptsd, it is larger than all of it and that’s what has guided me back to the LIGHT and out of the darkness! ✨✨✨✨ I BELIEVE YOU CAN FULLY HEAL AND LIVE THE LIFE OF YOUR DREAMS IF YOU WANT IT BADLY ENOUGH AND STOP WAITING FOR SOMEONE ELSE TO SAVE YOU AND DO IT FOR YOU! You have all you need inside of you! 🦋 #herbluewings #newzealand #adventure #glacierhike


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“Domestic violence causes far more pain than the visible marks of bruises and scars. It is devastating to be abused by someone that you love and think loves you in return.” – Dianne Feinstein
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If you or somebody you know is in an abusive situation, please reach out for help. #LoveDoesntHurt


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Finding out the truth, like actually having it head on, full on in my face, confirmed to me, was the most excruciating, most devastating moments of my entire life. Emotionally nothing has ever hurt so much. Having suspicions is one thing, because then it’s like ok, I only have my intuition to deal with or I would blame it on my fear. But when your nightmare is actually confirmed to be your reality, life turns upside down. Writing here is therapeutic and maybe some of you don’t agree with me telling my story but I don’t give a shit what you think. If you don’t agree then don’t come to my page. This is my experience and I have a right to tell it. Whatever gets me through this is what I will do. Come to think of it, it’s better than turning to what most people suffering turn to... bad shit. Writing and expressing has been my go to.. for relief and I don’t want to stop now. I am heartbroken beyond belief and I had been strung along for quite some time. Something had to give and God did just that. I found out a lot of information that rocked me to me core and now I have to process all of these emotions that run through me and deal with the dreams every night that remind me of the deplorable things that were done. This experience has shown me that raising my daughters with as much knowledge about self love and self worth is imperative. Nobody taught me about my worth or self esteem and I accepted abuse of all kinds because of that and I called it love. The cycle ends now.
#knowyourworth #lovecanbereal #selfesteem #selfworth #lovefraud #lovedoesnthurt #bereal #reallife #truestory #hope #pain #grieving #sadness #coping #carryon #faith #truth #courage #brave #bravenewyou #speakup #godhasaplan #sociopathic #psychopathy #narcissisticpersonalitydisorder #ilovedyou #darkness #light #mindgames #punked 💔


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