Fun Fridays Loading on D.O.L (link in bio)......the problem with a lot of people is that who they are at home is not necessarily who they are outside. So the threat is always coinciding the two world's. "Kana kufamily ikoko toridza Mr Putiti isu"
I think that's stressful tbh, having experienced the gap at some point in my life, I'm thankful that the penny dropped. That truth across world's became the difference that would save my life and ultimately my sister's. But hey, we not doing the deep stuff today, that's a conversation for another day. It's sunny inna Englandddddd. I know it's February but heyyyyyyy Summer is coming💃💃💃. When we do not allow our environments to be open enough, for our children to expose their mistakes so we can correct them, we ultimately abandon them, to people that will not necessarily have the best intentions for them at heart. Fact. Equally, when we are not transparent with people in positions to advise or guide us, we rob only ourselves of the wealth of their wisdom. I'm thankful for my parents for teaching me this valuable lesson.
Ok so in relation to D.O.L- Emotional intelligence facilitates my ability to explain the reasoning behind my actions, and them the reasoning behind their correction. If you know me well enough, even at 30, I have learnt to consult my parents, because they love me and mean well for me.
Not every family setting is the same though. Some parents genuinely do not have the mental capacity, education, training or resources to do more for their children. We as a society have to learn to identify the poverty, with an attitude to better things, not just shame and humiliate. In 2019 that's a backward approach.
Your ideologies are yours, based on your variables. Not everyone has the same. By variables I mean everything, from skin colour to height, weight, location, upbringing, culture, religion, environment, wealth, support system or lack of it, shoe size, health and everything else you can think of. Basically YOU are not fit to place anyone in any box of judgment until you figure out yours. Don't get left behind on the growth train. #restoration #family #tgif #truth #doseoflove8 #emotionalintelligence