#cardoftheday#dailyguidance#wisdomoftheoracle#unfinishedsymphony#thetarotista🔮🙏♥️💫 #unfinishedbusiness#makeamends Card of the day 12th November 2018 As you are coming to the end of one chapter you may have some loose ends to tie up . Is there a need for closure on a relationship situation, if so send the text or make the call or send a letter. Your heart needs proper closure so you can release this connection. If there is no contact you could write the letter and burn it to release those feelings. Examine and accept yourself and who you have become now as you move to the next chapter. Ensure any loose ends are tied up with projects or matters in hand before moving to the next thing. Www.TheTarotista.co.uk 🙏✨♥️
Since it’s Veterans Day: this is a photo of my brother from 1965. He served in the Vietnam War and came home with terrible PTSD. He committed suicide in 1966. Reliable sources report that 57,000 Vietnam veterans committed suicide- about the same amount as died in the conflict. Where is the recognition of this horror? I was 14 years old when my brother killed himself and I will grieve him for the rest of my life. I see so many old Vietnam war vets homeless in the streets of LA. Where is the help, the medical and psychiatric care they need??? And then Trump can even make it to a WWI commemoration because of some rain!!! Fuck that and fuck the wars that are still destroying so many young people as well as the havoc in other countries. All this war shit needs to stop💔💔💔 #vietnamwarvets#vietnamsuicide#stopsuicide#supportveterans#peacenow#makeamends#housingforvets#servicesforvets
Be Nice!!!! Yes, thank you amazingly awesomely creative @davidshrigley . Be Nice. Even if people are gossiping about you! I often hear in media that if people are talking about you, they're probably jealous of you in some way. I don't know about that (seems too easy!).. But I DO know ..... it is impossible for gossips to be nice. Gossiping is basically telling lies about people to make one's self temporarily/artificially feel better. Mean people gossip. Small people gossip. Cowardly people gossip. Gossiping is all done behind the other person's back, often portraying the person in a negative way, which is bad enough... & no one ever asks or verifies with the person who is being talking about. Note to self: stay away from gossips. Further note to self: never, ever, under any circumstances be a gossip. Apologize & make amends for any previous insensitive mean gossiping.
Friends & Acquaintances: if you ever hear me gossiping please immediately put me in my place !!! "Juliana!! STOP IT!" I really don't want to be that person. Especially at 37... I'm too old for that sh*t. 🙏🏾 I was really naive for 30 some years. For one thing, I thought everyone liked me😂(but seriously, I really did).. & another, I thought if you were nice to people , they wouldn't ever talk bad about you. Well. Some people will be mean no matter how nice you are. As backwards as this might sound, I didn't know that!! Who cares. Don't bother to try to correct anyone's misconceptions about you. & BE NICE, ANYWAY! Be nice no matter what. Please remind me of this if you think I need it!!!!! I know I will.
I will set out and go back to my father and say to him: Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son; make me like one of your hired servants.’ Luke 15:18-19 NIV × Making amends means bearing the truth of our wrongs to someone else. The wronged person has a choice to make, forgiveness or bitterness. This decision can create fear to make amends. Be encouraged today! When you do all you can to make amends either the relationship is healed or you know you did all you can to make it right. × #liferecovery#makeamends#stepnine#step9
I dove into the past the last few days and it was hard. I realized I'm great at pushing people away when I'm hurt. I also realized I get hurt more than I admit. Especially insults about my parenting or being a good person. That cuts deep. And I apologize if I've ever lashed out. #makeamends#grow#sorry#forgive#forget#lovenothate#imahippy
It been 2 months since my brother has been gone & it still feels like a bad dream. Does this feeling ever go away? Nothing fixes it..solitude seems to make things so much worse. I leave for you brother a shot to fix the pain. I love you dearly and miss you. Regrets are the black hole that kills us like a fast growing cancer but clings on just enough till we pull the trigger !!! REST IN PARADISE MY BROTHER ❤️ #gonetosoon#livewithnoregrets#makeamends#restinpeace
We can’t afford to live with regrets in life. Often times a mistake once made cannot be undone but we can take steps towards avoiding a future occurrence by taking the lessons learnt and being more conscious and in control of our actions. #dontstressit#makeamends. #notetoself . . Random 💭.... thought to share. . . Hope you all are having a beautiful Friday evening. Goodnight ❤️
Words that revisit again this year. I think we could all gain perspective from this: . Relationships are never easy things. Whether it be the trials of a union such as marriage or navigating the waters of friendship. Maybe it's the day that choice your sister made really put your relations to the test or an online friend voiced her opinion that greatly thwarted your own. . It seems common, doesn't it? Relational strife. Hurt feelings, anger, roots of bitterness become the norm. We feel a sense of justification in our decision to carry it around. On the outside we make it appear as though we're fine. We tend to pick up our lives and carry on, too proud to admit that our insides are a mess and too determined to let it beat us. . I wonder if that's how Paul and Barnabas felt at the crossroad? When those hurt feelings made them realize they would need to carry on as two separate entities spreading the gospel rather than one? Perhaps when you read that passage in Acts 15 you're rooting for Barnabas. Maybe Paul. . Sometimes I think it's easy to forget He went with the both of them. . Beth Moore says it well, "I'm grateful God saw fit to weave this part of their story into the fabric of Scripture because torn relationships happen to us, too, and they are deeply painful." . . God works things together for a good that's far greater than our own. It's the enemy who wishes to kill and destroy these good works. But, if we allow, He takes our human moments and bitter words and molds them into something refreshingly new and good. . For a time, Paul and Barnabas successfully carried on their ministries apart from one another yet Scripture suggests there was reconciliation. I like to think they agreed to disagree and prayed mightily for the cause they so deeply believed in. . . “If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.” (Romans 12:18) . . It's easy to expect others to see where they've wronged us. It's easy to lay blame outside our own sphere. But “as far as it depends on us" do we make room for amends? #thissideofgrace#morningmeditations#friendship#reconciliation#makeamends#reallife#entrusted#digitalevangelist#hurting#betrayal#speaklife
My mom always asked me how I could be so forgiving when someone did me wrong. Its because I know most of the time when someone does something, they aren't doing it to intentionally harm me. Selfish acts aren't done for the right reasons but I understand, everyone is struggling with something and just trying to make themselves happy, in the moment not always aware of the cost. And I just hope to get some of that same grace. Make amends my friends, the best you can. You are still a good person, we just have to stand up and confront our demons and hope the light shines brighter through the darkness . . . #HappyMonday#Beabetterperson#Makeamends#Mistakesarejustthat
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I just did a jugdement inventory, what an eye opener. It was out of @gabbybernstein book #judgementdetox I highly recommend doing it, it's not only a fantastic emotional purge it also brings about much awareness and clarity, shedding light on the shadows of our character for healing. I didn't realize how much I judged others and how much fear is behind it, its so habitual. Greatful for the process of unraveling. (p.s may cause cringing🙄) (pps. If you judge me I completely understand and I forgive you.) Happy Sunday 💖
This is the part of owning our stories that freakin sucks. There is no comfortable way to do it. The pain is sometimes unbearable and the shame so deep. Making amends means we bring to light the areas we have wronged others. Actions and words that caused someone else’s suffering. Our initial response is to run and hide, escape the discomfort, keep the peace, pretend it didn’t happen. Shame loves to keep us isolated. Hidden in our failures or defending our actions. But shame cannot survive exposure. Making amends, owning our wrong, saying “I’m sorry” is one of our biggest steps toward wholeness and healing. When we live life with no regrets we decide we have nothing left to learn. Making amends is a TRUE act of self love and forgiveness. ❤️ #makespace#ramblingsofatherapist#saysorry#makeamends#selflove#selfforgiveness#selfcompassion#ownyourstory#vulnerabilityisstrength#vulnerable
Have you ever found yourself reacting to a situation with not quite the right measure of energy ? Maybe something happens and you project a lot of anger or emotion or just react really harsh or strongly? Maybe you don’t notice or just think “well that deserved that, that’s how I’m feeling”. But as we practice with more conscious awareness we might realize that this could be a moment of healing for us. It could be that whatever it is triggered something that hurt our heart more than it was safe for us to acknowledge at the time. Maybe it was something small from an old relationship or maybe a childhood trauma. But if we pay attention we might see these moments as life or the universe, giving us a chance to heal our heart. 💜 Sometimes we need to go into these places just long enough to salve old wounds, take responsibility for our behaviour as a result and carry on. There is such a thing as a change of heart. ☺️
Contemplating the sermon we heard on confession yesterday. @dwbuursma pointed out that in Psalm 51, King David confesses to God, but never mentions Bathsheba or Uriah, or any attempt to make amends. Got me to thinking: when you read the aftermath of David’s rape of Bathsheba and murder of Uriah, you read that David’s son raped his sister, but David seems to do nothing about this as well. Subsequently the son is killed by his brother. Do you think that David could have prevented any of this horror by more fully recognizing that his sins were not victimless? It’s amazing that God forgives us for so much. Yet our sins have repercussions. Are there sins for which we need not only to confess, but also to attempt to make amends? Individually? Collectively? #sermongotmethinking#goodtobechallenged#confess#forgiveness Photo: Anguish #12, Seo, Young-Deok