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Day 20 of #proverbstoprosper
"If you’re too lazy to plant seed, it’s too bad when you have no harvest on which to feed." Proverbs 20:4 •
Y'all. Let's get real.

If Proverbs talks about anything, it talks about and contrasts these two things: Laziness vs. Hard work.

And y'all know me, looking up these words gives me greater understanding, so I looked up the definition of Lazy.

Lazy is the unwillingness to work, be active... another source defined it as the disinclination to activity or exertion *despite* having the ability to act or exert oneself.

Meaning you have everything you need, all the resources and you still don't act.

Now here are where the excuses come rolling in, how do I know? Because I've used them, probably all of them.

"I don't have enough money to do X, Y or Z"

"I don't know the right people to move forward on..."

"I don't have enough time to do..."

Y'all have you said any one of these when you are about to take a step into the directions of your dreams and purposes??

Maybe you want to start eating better, or working out, or building that business, whatever it is, but do you know none of it will come to fruition without hard work. #preachingtomyself

We search high and low for the quick fixes, the short cuts, we literally will do everything else before we face our excuses, call them what they are, and do the hard work.

The realization that's it's YOU keeping you from your goals and not *them* or *that* can be a bit daunting.

And you may think it's easier to just hide behind excuses, choose the path of the least resistance, and be *lazy.*

But the truth is, You were created for hardwork, you will come alive when you face and overcome your fears and excuses and take those bold & bodacious steps toward those goals.

So y'all I'm excited! I'm excited to turn in the cloak of my excuses and lazy outfit, and start wearing my robes of royalty, and hard work!

It is our joy and portion to steward the time, resources, giftings God has given us and MULTIPLE! *see Matthew 25:14*

Laziness is not your true nature! Diligence, hard work will mark this generation. It starts with me and it starts with you!

Let's do this yall!


Tomorrow marks 6 months from when he finally took his plea deal, 6 months since what would of been our three year anniversary, and 6 months from when I had to accept my new life. It would take me a few more months to lose all hope, to let go for good, but the pain still sits in my heart. Tomorrow we go back to court, tomorrow I have to face him again, a journey I wish on no one. This will be my life for the next three years it seems. Constant uncertainty, constant reminders, constant heartache. I am stronger than the woman I was a year ago. Yesterday memories of some of the abuse he did a year ago flashed across my mind, and in a month and four days, it will be exactly a year since he tried to kill me, to kill us, when I saw my life flash before my eyes, and didn’t know if there would be a tomorrow. I was reminded by my dear friend, @thatprincessgirl yesterday that I have my angel, @jedi_elvis watching over me still, just from above this time. I am reminded constantly by the scars left of what I survived. And I have great role models, who have survived abuse as well, constantly inspiring me, and giving me hope. I am a different woman. I am a stronger woman. I am a survivor. My friend circle has gotten smaller, but my faith in God has gotten bigger. I couldn’t count the amount of nights I have cried myself to sleep, but through faith, and friends and family that have been consistently a phone call away in the moments I didn’t know if I would ever be able to get up again, I am here. Bruised and all, I stand here. Ready to face my abuser again. Ready to face what God has for me next. Ready to live with no fears and only teach through love, teach through example, and help those like me, whom are not sure how to walk again after facing this kind of pain. I’ve found my purpose. What’s yours?
📸: @leikosphotography @roguewolfartist

Malibu Canyon

I’ve turned into “little brown girl with a sad story” into “least expected person with the most power”. I stay religious because I’m hash tag #blessed #nolongeravictim


Learning to "read" people, to understand their moods, was the key to my survival. I needed the adults around me to be happy so I could avoid abuse. This has carried over to my adult life. I read people, I build up my wall and only allow safe people in. No child should be a scapegoat. #StoleMyChildhood #Abuse #abusesurvivor #Survivor #SexualAssault #NoLongerAVictim #Motherless #ThrowAway


Today has been Australia’s National Day of Action Against Bullying and Violence.

If you’re a victim of bullies, speak up! If you’re a bully, get help.

#Repost @belladancerella_diva with @get_repost
So happy not to be around bullies and to be in a loving supportive environment every day!! @dsa_academy @dsa_australia @#nationaldayofactionagainstbullyingandviolence #nolongeravictim

Diva Dance Australia

So happy not to be around bullies and to be in a loving supportive environment every day!! @dsa_academy @dsa_australia @#nationaldayofactionagainstbullyingandviolence #nolongeravictim


#tbt I survived the worst of my anorexia and bulimia at a young age circa 1999! Love being healthy and making better choices 👍🏽 #eatingdisorderrecovery #blessed #survivor #champion #neveragain #biggerandbetter #wedidit #nolongeravictim #ichoosemyfamily #choosehappiness #grateful #bodydismorphia #ptsd

New York, New York

😂😂😂 Grateful I know something that does though! EFT Tapping, Matrix Reprinting, meditation, and energy work changed my life.
I held deep trauma after being abused emotionally and sexually by my therapist as a teenager. It took me years to be able to say that I was a victim and to recognize that I was truly unable to consent at the time. She tormented me for months after breaking off the relationship, calling, texting, and emailing angry, manipulative, and degrading things. I spent years not talking about it, defending her, and blaming myself. I used alcohol and drugs to cope, and found myself in dysfunctional relationship after dysfunctional relationship. I was damaged and pretending I was absolutely fine.
I found EFT and Matrix Reimprinting. I started re-learning to love myself, a little more each day. I began dismantling my limiting beliefs and painful memories with powerful energy work techniques. I recognized and embraced that I had truly been a victim of abuse, and that I didn’t have to remain a victim any longer.
I undid two decades of emotional, physical, and psychological damage. I’d love to show you how you can do the same ❤️


A REAL man/women will NEVER starve you of peace, comfort, love or the feeling of home. #abusednomore #nolongeravictim #youaremyhome #iwillnotsettle #couragedearheart #bebrave


"Even though it was such a tough time, all of my needs were taken care of. I didn’t have to worry about shampoo, or food, or clothes. We were all going through this tough time. One night after the kids had gone to bed, a couple of the ladies and I played dress-up. We went into the garage and we just felt like we were young again. It was so much fun. I don’t remember having that much fun since I was a teenager. So it kinda helped me remind myself who I was at the moment. In the relationship I was just so squeezed and broken, and just not even who I was. I forgot who I was, I wasn’t able to be free to be myself. It was a nice reminder to remember that there was something different. It was nice to know all of my needs were taken care of. And if I needed someone to talk to, the advocates were there, and they helped me at really difficult time. When I had to go to court and I was really really scared, it was just nice to know I wasn’t alone.” Safe Embrace Client, 2017 #howyouhelp #domesticviolence #inhershoes #domesticviolencesurvior #NoLongerAVictim