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Saying you want change, saying you want to make an impact....these things don’t come by staying in the same comfortable position you’ve been in that’s CREATED the desire to change in the first place! ⚡️⚡️⚡️💥💥💥
(Just read that again until it lights that fire in your belly!🔥) Message me if you are sick of making the same mistakes, running through the same self sabotaging habits!

I hear you, I feel you because I am you!💡👊❤️ I’ve been there!
But not anymore!
IT’S TIME to take ownership
You CAN Become your BLISS!!🌟💚💫
#selfownership #radicalresponsibility #nomorevictim #blamegame #takebackcontrol #youretheone #selfsabotage #yourchoice #ivegotyou


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Healing is a different experience for everyone. Some people heal quickly. Some people heal slowly. Some people have highs and lows in their healing. Some people only experience some of these things and some experience all. Never judge your own healing journey based on the journey of someone else. #EachJourneyIsDifferent #DontBaseYourJourneyOnTheJourneyOfOthers #Healing #Anxiety #AbuseSurvivor #NoMoreVictim #YouGotThis #ConfessionsOfAnAnxietyRiddenPeoplePleaser #NewBlogComingSoon #EndTheStigma #MentalHealth #MentalHealthAdvocacy


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When people see me today, they think I have it easy. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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I have a family and business I love. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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I am surrounded by amazing friends. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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However, it wasn't always that way. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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As a kid, I didn't have many friends. I always seemed different than everyone else - no matter how hard I tried to fit in.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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At 17, I got pregnant with my greatest blessing. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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At 26, I found myself in an abusive marriage. I was a stay at home, homeschooling mom of 4 kids - two of which were my step daughters that lived with us full time. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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At 31, I found myself angry and bitter at my husband, God, and myself. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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At 33, I found myself alone on my living couch in a heap of tears. My husband had been arrested for domestic violence and I thought my life was over. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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It was then I learned I was more powerful than my circumstances. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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I made the choice to BE different. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Flash forward to today, God healed my marriage. My finances did a 180. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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It took time, but I overcame my circumstances. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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I am happily married (to the same man who used to be abusive) and I am LOVING life helping other business owners achieve success with Facebook and Instagram ads.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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Sometimes I wonder how different my life would look today if I hadn't made a choice to succeed despite my circumstances.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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What have you overcome to achieve your dreams?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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LONG BUT WORTH THE READ!
Just a walk down memory lane! I've been working on sorting photos on my phone & these gems were too good to pass by! .
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The first 2 photos are my befores. I was so embarrassed that I refused to allow THAT body to be associated with my face. 😔
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At this time you have to understand how I felt. I was tired. I was ashamed. I was hating my self. I avoided mirrors because then I'd be forced to look MYSELF in the eyes. .
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I was one of those girls that tried everything. Prepackaged food, low carb, no carb, retail store protein shakes, whey protein shakes, clean eating, & even that powder you sprinkle on your food to help you lose weight! 🤦‍♀️ Seriously? WTH was I thinking? I know, I wanted (with most of the 'diets' I mentioned, was something else to do the work. .
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Why couldn't I lose weight?! I knew what to do but kept failing. I lost motivation within a week. Gorged because of emotional eating but swore come Monday I'd be right back on! .
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Failure after failure left me blaming the world. I even blamed food for tasting so good. I blamed skinny people. I placed myself in the victim role. 🤦‍♀️
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I've been saved. Despite naysayers & the unsupportive were NEVER concerned about the health issues my weight was causing! 🤷‍♀️Now I'm winning. No more victim thinking. No more blaming. I'm HEALTHY! .
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#overweight
#fridayfeels
#fatloss
#nomorevictim
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Victim mentality is not only a mindset, it becomes a habit. ⁣⁣
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Are you constantly blaming, judging, pointing fingers at everyone else instead of taking ownership of your own damn shit? ⁣⁣
Then you my friend are playing the victim and that shit ain’t sexy. ⁣⁣
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I get it, life is fucking hard. ⁣⁣
However, only YOU can let it tear you down. ⁣⁣
You are a fighter, a warrior, a champion and that makes you sexy as hell. ⁣⁣
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Step out of victimhood and take back your life. ⁣⁣
It is YOURS after all. ⁣⁣
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#thatenergyaintwelcomehere⁣⁣
#nomorevictim⁣⁣
#stopthedrama


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Are you looking for Soul Surgery? 💔 Do you have trauma in your past? Addictions? Have you really healed the little girl 👩🏻 inside you?
I've done a great deal of personal development, worked with a healer which have been a huge help to me. Then I signed up for @Tra cy_omalley Soul Surgery group coaching and the SHIT hit the fan. 🤦🏻‍♀️ Tracy is raw and real! 💜 Tracy would remind me I was "playing victim" from the sexual abuse as a child and thru her tools, coaching Tracy coached me to build a relationship with my "little Kim" and I am no longer a victim, I AM a SURVIVOR! 🙋🏻‍♀️ Tracy taught me to HONOR Kim first which hasn't been easy especially with family. Tracy is a life changer and soul healer - I am so blessed to have been in her first coaching group and grateful God kept tugging at me to sign up - yes it was an investment but the positive changes in my life are worth it - YOU are WORTH it! Don't let anyone tell you differently! ❤️ Would you like to learn more? Visit the link below for a video from Tracy O'Malley- Don't wait group starts August 26th and will fill up fast! https://th400.isrefer.com/go/GroupCoaching/KBruck/
#lifecoach #sousurgery #trauma #healing #littlegirlinsideyou #nomorevictim #iamsurvivor #addiction #recovery #survivor #investinyou #healyourlittle #beyondpersonaldevelopment #honoryourself #grateful #blessed #shithitfan #lovelifedream


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Many of us believe who we are is fixed and unchangeable. Or we choose to believe that we can't help it. That's how I was brought up you might hear people say.
But just because you were brought up a certain way doesn't mean it's fixed. Our behaviors are completely changeable and adapatable. In fact most of us operate on auto pilot never giving a second thought to the unhealthy, dysfunctional patterns we learned growing up.
Remember too that what you were taught was largely from all that your parents knew to do.
But that is not an excuse to continuing the behaviors unconsciously gifted to you.
When you decide to break away from the unhealthy behaviors you are intentionally CHOOSING to redefine the way you behave because you decide what no longer serves you. And when you do that you change the course of future generations and that's powerful stuff.
You decide to let go of patterns, of victim mentality, of blaming your parents, of traits you have adopted from family cultures, be it gambling, deception, manipulation, gossiping, anger, avoidance, abuse, addiction.
You rewrite the story for yourself.
And you decide to stop looking for excuses for how its always been and choose to be who you truly want to be instead of running an old script that no longer serves you.
So who do you choose to be?
#theothersideoftrauma #trauma #traumatotriumph #anxiety #panic #lifeskills #lifetips #mentalillness #changeyourbeliefs #youcan #disorder #depression #anxiety #mentalillness #panic #anxious #scared #mystory #improof #biography #memoir #traumacoach #coach #iwasabused #decide #growth #nomorevictim


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The first 3 months was praying and hoping everything will be ok. There was one day when I though I lost him because of the bleeding. The next 6 months I was bound to my bed, reading all the books I can on parenting while deciding on a name. Then came the snow storm when I drove in the snow while my doctor's colleague walked 5 miles to welcome him to the world. I forgot about the pain I experienced until I saw the video. All I remember was feeling so much love. The next 3 years and counting were constant worrying with exponential amount of love.
THERE WILL NEVER BE A DAY WHEN I AM OK FOR MY SON TO BE A SHOOTING TARGET.
THIS IS GOT TO STOP. LIVES ARE PRECIOUS.
#nomoreviolence
#nomorevictim
#nomorehatred


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Yes, & this can include blood relatives. In my case, my NM came into my life for a reason. To end the cycle of #narcissisticabuse #nocontact #survivor #nomorevictim #selfrespect💪 #selflove #selfcare #breakthecycle 😌


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You are far greater than you situation or your circumstances! You are GREAT! #fight #stand #grow #resilient #nomorevictim #survivor #nomorerape #protect #children


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Yes, I’m trying to make a point here. Recognize the #toxicpeople in your life & do everything necessary to rid yourself of their poison. You cannot live your best #life as long as you allow them to be a part of it. #nonarcissists #nocontact #survive #survivor #nomorevictim #narcissisticmother #narcissisticabuse #emotionalabuse #manipulation #verbalabuse #bestrong💪 #peaceofmind #breathe #youcandoit #yourenotalone 💪🙏👏👏🙌🙌❤️


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This is OluTimehin Adegbeye, she is a Nigerian writer, editor and activist.

In 2016, OluTimehin disclosed how she had after 10 years for the first time seen the face of the man who assaulted her when she was 16. Reactions to her story were disappointing as most people just looked on and treated it as though it was trivial.

Let us with one voice speak out and stop blaming the victims or telling them how reckless they were in those unfortunate situations. Thank you OluTimehin @ohtimehin for speaking up, we will not stop until these perpetrators are exposed and put to shame.

#NoMorevictim shaming
#NoMoresexual violence
#NoMoregender assault
#NoMore


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Today is a F.L.Y day. Even through the smoke I try to smile and love myself no matter what. It's hard to find beauty when the world is so ugly. But when you change your way of thinking, the road gets clearer. It's real easy to get knocked down and even harder to stand up at times. Remember that life is challenging. Change is inevitable. Your strength overpowers all if you allow it. When life throws you lemons, make lemonade and throw the peels back!!! Stay F.L.Y folks 💋 #firstloveyourself #lovethyself #selflovery #everythingwillbeok #thisthingcalledlife #fight #beasurvivor #nomorevictim #takecontrol


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The victim mentality only serves to keep you hostage and in bondage to your past! It’s time to forgive and move forward!
#forgiveness
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#nomorevictim
#movingforward
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