I am happy! I am happy! I am happy!
I need you to tell yourself that right now. Whatever, the circumstances are, say it to yourself AGAIN! Why?
Happiness is the evidence of your state of mind. That is, you having the will power and control over your own mind. So allowing what someone says or does to dictate YOUR state of mind means, it's no longer yours.
I remember a few years ago in my marriage when things weren't going the way I wanted it to go or envisaged it, i began to confess how unhappy i was to the point where I could no longer see the good in my husband. It was so bad that just his presence would affect my countenance and my thinking process. Years later, i decided to intentionally change my outlook on the things he did that got to me. Today, we reflect on those things and we both laugh about it together, almost 10years on and still counting.
My point is, be intentional about controlling YOUR state of mind my choosing a positive outlook on whatever the situation may be. You only live once, so live it well without regrets.
Focus on changing your outlook and not the person or situation. Happiness is not just a feeling but a CHOICE.
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