Just the other day, i was complaining about the amount of stress that i was going through. For those who do not know, i have a 9-5 full time job, my baby @koozel.id ,this blog/page , and on top of that i am in the committee of 2 church groups, while also juggling to attend bible study sessions, be a good daughter to my mother, a good auntie to my nieces, a friend who ties to be there when needed, and trying to squeeze what ever time i have left with improving myself with books.
In essence. I feel burnt out. No. I am burnt out.
As i was complaining about this, about how tired i am. She responded with a ' Marry a rich guy'
Ah, the beauty of an Asian society.
Rich guys are often portrayed to be the answer to most of our problems in life.
So much so that many women are willing to be mistresses to rich men.
As i listened to her tell me about WHY i should find a rich guy, i cannot help but think how ridiculous that statement was.
I do not want a rich guy. I want a guy who endlessly inspires me to be better.
I do not want a rich guy. A man who dreams big and fights for his dreams daily is alot sexier to me.
I do not want a rich guy. I want someone who has the drive to learn, to improve, to grow everyday. And at the end of the day. We have to remember something. When things are down and low and shit hits the pan, we have to learn how to save ourselves. We have to learn to fight. We have to grow, we have to adapt , we have to survive. Cause when it comes down to it, everyone else is busy trying to save themselves. When shit hits the pan, even the richest of husbands might not be able to save you, cause probably even he too, is too busy trying to save himself.
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