Finding a partner for tantra, shouldn’t be confused with finding a twin flame. It is hard to accept for many that twin flames are extremely rare to come across without a heavy amount of tantric practice with soul mates. Many of us have died with our soulmates in past lives and have ended up back here, for the reason that our divine counterpart has not been found. We have not yet created the androgynous Soul that is capable of creating reality at will. This is why tantra is the path of the true warrior. They understand that they have not yet been filled with an equal amount of opposite sex energy in order to be able to destroy unconsciously created realities and then recreate desired realities that will reflect in the physical. For those that accept and understand they have a lot of subconscious reality to recreate, it should be equally understood that it will take a great amount of tantric energy exchange that comes only through physical orgasm, in which the power of, is determined by the amount of prolonging the climax that happens between both sexes. Finding a partner for tantra, to fill each other with love and opposite sex energy, is what should be considered the most important goal for those who seek to live as gods and goddesses within all the planes of existence, high and low. The fact of the matter is sexual orgasm energy, is simply the most powerful, and the only energy powerful enough to destroy previously created realities by our unconscious thoughts, actions, and emotions, not only now, but in past lives as well.