One of the things I have learned in life (or at least am trying to learn) is that whining gets you nowhere. So, it's unfair. So, you think you have it harder than others. Well, here's some hard truths: there is no easy path to success. Not for you, not for anyone. And there's no Olympics for who has suffered the most. These two things can be true: it is understandable to be scared, or to be disadvantaged, or frustrated by circumstances beyond your control AND it is also true that everyone you dislike for having it "easier" has also worked or suffered for the things they have. I used to really hate that second truth. It was easier to pretend that other people who were doing "better" had purchased a cheat code that I couldn't afford, but so what if they did? That's the way it is. I believe what goes around comes around, but even if it doesn't, there's nobody else who's going to do my life for me. You can whine about it or you can suck it up. Your choice.
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