This is so profound!🌺 Men sometimes fail to innerstand that as women, we bred to make everything alright, even if it kills us. We have black women afraid to go to the hospital because they will miss a day at work, because we're supposed to be stronger, tolerate a man's abuse, just to say we have a man to come home to, however, when are the men (and women) going to realize that "love" is more about how you show yourself and others what you're aware of what love is. Having the discipline to acknowledge when your love doesn't match the one or one's you say you love. Love is about reflecting on your actions and discovering new ways to show how much you love yourself and others.
In this clip, this sista is addressing the falsehood that our BROTHAS have to face while abroad, being passive, told what to do, demeaned and disrespected while trying to provide and to some degree we have become accustomed to accepting his behavior because we understand, yet her point is more profound than his actions. If he was able to fake it for everyone else, then why he can't fake it with her and the answer is, "because a real man don't and shouldn't have to fake SHIT"....unfortunately, we all have to mask our real emotions towards different obstacles in life, to save our position, our reputation or our relationships...but why? Have we become used to being fake and only acknowledging what's real behind closed doors, afraid to "BE" who were meant to be? Is THIS the reasons why we suffer from generational curses? Do we have a remedy?🤷🏾 well, now we do and the answer is the "SELF LOVE DISCOVERY" WORKSHOP. @goddess.of.self.love.discovery 🌺
Once we face the fact that we ALL have individual trust issues, then we will be able to learn to trust others, because you will trust self FIRST. When you truly LOVE, you won't need to lie to ANYONE, NOT EVEN YOURSELF.
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