Being a mother changes your life in so many ways, especially your relationships with others, and, more importantly, your husband. When you see the man you love, love the child you two have created, its an incredible feeling. Your love for them grows IMMENSELY. But It can be hard to focus on your spouse when you have little humans who want and need your undivided attention 24/7, most marriages end up on the back burner. We have learned to appreciate our marriage and love more- being parents only makes us work harder to keep our foundation and connection solid. I know it sounds like a lot of work, but its more fun than anything else. Something that keeps us happy is staying young at heart. Sometimes being an "adult” is stressful, + full of hardships that can be overwhelming. We try to keep things light, + keep them happy, and stay true to us. It's all about keeping the spark alive. We are constantly trying to better our relationship; Finding any way we can spend even a few minutes together, and sometimes you have to get creative- Put his baking skills to the test and make some midnight snacks together while sharing some of your favorite memories from your beginning. Put some music on(we love to put our wedding song on) and dance in the candlelight in your room, or Even dance around your kitchen while your kids are around-Our kids are always all smiles while watching us. Put the kids down, curl up in bed together and read a book(we love the Love Language Devotional). Sneak outside after laying the kids down, wrap up in a blanket, and share a dessert. Light some candles, give each other massages, and have a nice long pillow talk session while doing so. Go on a late night Milk run to Wal-Mart and act like a bunch of children running around the store in masks and having hula hoop contests. We keep things fun and keep each other young for sure. Your marriage doesn't become less important after having kids, it becomes MORE important- Treat it accordingly- Don't let the fun and intimacy die. Here’s to being kids at . What do you guys do to keep your spark/the romance alive and keep your relationship fun???? We are ALWAYS looking for new ideas!!