There is nothing quite like a girls day at a winery where your hair is 👌🏻, and you’re feeling all sorts of confident in your fun outfit. Am I right!? 🍷
But every single person reading this needs to know one MAJOR thing. ‼️ This is not my life. This is a moment in my life, but this is not the most accurate summary
I had a great talk with some women this weekend and when they said, “It looks like you’re just killing it!” I had to ask, “Why do you say that?”🤷🏼♀️
I’m so many areas I do feel like I’m killing it, but in just as many other I feel behind or *gasp* failing. 🤭
I appreciate compliments like the statement above but what I’d prefer - and what I consider to be more accurate would be, “Girl, it looks like you’re just going for it!” .
My success is not some glamorous rise with pure joy, and ease 👉🏻 and neither is any one else’s success. 👈🏻My success has been work, sacrifice, and compromise mixed in with joy and passion. I’ve just decided to go all in for what matters most in my life - the work, the people, the experiences.
Whether I fail or win, each day I start a new day with a blank slate. I don’t count my failures before I try again, and I don’t lean on my wins either. Every day I start fresh and try to do a little better. .
I don’t want any single woman to think, “they’re just killing it” while you beat yourself up for the areas you aren’t killing it in. Girl, you also already have what it takes. So my friend, stop worrying about “killing it” and just start going for it! .
I’d much rather cheers to that! 🍻