Good morning lovelies..
I just really feel like venting this subject matter and I will probably be seen as psychotic, but at this point, just add it to the pot and I'll stir that in later. LOL
After taking my son to school, I was listening to a poll on the radio regarding couples and intimacy, asking how often married couples are actually intimate in comparison to statistics. I was in utter disbelief from what I heard callers say. The average amt of times married couples are intimate per wk is TWICE, on the upswing. Per month it is recorded as 4-5, MAYBE, as 6 is considered MAJOR.
Ok folks, here comes my tangent..
WHAT. IS WRONG. W/YOU PEOPLE?
I'm happily divorced for 16 yrs now.
My marital situation was different because my ex was an abusive addict. HOWEVER, albeit short, I DID have a "regular" marital experience at one point. Since my divorce, the Lord has taught me so much in addition to what I was already endowed with, that my perspective on marriage has greatly advanced.
I have 5 children, 4 of which are adults. But I could not even CONSIDER using my 5 yr old as a valid reason of refrain, adding tiredness in addition. With my HUSBAND? The man I am spending the REST of my ENTIRETY with? And I only partake of his excellence 2x in 7 days, and 4-6 in 30 WHOLE days? (cue the urban slang) - WHERE DEY DO DAT, AT?
There is NOTHING going on in life as a whole, to EVER cause ME to neglect my HUSBAND. On MY watch? On PURPOSE? But, we're MARRIED though. Like, all day, everyday, and it's legal before GOD? LOL You THEN expect me to NOT touch him every chance I GET? I aim for, "baby, listen, just wait, I need to rest, give me a minute" not, "is today the day?"My HUSBAND though? Yooo.. EVERYDAY is your day, minus one understandable wk out of every month, but I wanna know, "where you goin? To the KITCHEN? Oh ok, I'll be in there in a minute papi, don't trip." LOL
No wonder marriages are in crisis. I'm now celibate because I learned about our cell replenishment, and I spiritually purged because I wanted to start over as best as I could since reclaiming virginity isn't an option. My husband will NEVER hear NO from ME. I don't believe in that word regarding OUR needs..