#Relationships: Goes both ways. These are equally reciprocated actions that benefit both parties synergistically. Meaning that: If you’re the only one giving, you’re being used. If you’re the only that’s making sacrifices, you’re being used. If you’re the only one who’s contributing but never get anything in return, you’re being used. If you’re the one giving support, but you can’t find help when you need it, you’re being used. If the only time they call you is when they want something, you’re being used.
#Ladies: If they even remotely conceal you in any aspect of their life (meaning they keep you separate & hidden), it’s a high possibility that you are a pleasure filler. Meaning: they will only reach out to you as a last resort or an immediate sexual need. No conversation in between time, but only when necessary. Just enough for future access. I don’t care what’s being sd, ppl will show you EXACTLY how they feel about you. Talking holds no weight and validates no authentic reasoning...PAY ATTN!!!
It doesn’t matter what type of relationship: #friends #colleagues #lovers #business. You’ve got to be smart enough to know when enough is enough. You have too much to offer that someone wud have the audacity to place you as a last resort; as if your presence holds no VALUE or SIGNIFICANCEDROP EM!!
The trick of the enemy is to continually bring remnants of inconsistent ppl into your life to make you feel as though you are not enough. This is a curse!! A pray that god gives you the wisdom, courage and strength to drop and dead weight that you have openly brought into your life.
#LISTEN: I pray that god will alleviate every illegitimate user & abuser that has gained unauthorized access. This will be the season that only God ordained relationships will take precedence; he will begin to send quality ppl who gladly love, support and openly celebrate you and everything your strive to accomplish!! #Selah #staywoke #soulties #breakthechain #breakthecurse #selflove #selfworth #relationships #relationshipquotes #realtionshipgoals #positivity #support #partnership #love #friendship #authenticity #bestrong #overcome #walkaway #wisdom #facts