One of the most difficult things to do during an awakening process is the „relationship audit”.
Start by asking: „Who are the people, who have an everyday influence on me? Are they inspiring, loving, understanding and supportive, or not? Who are the ones, who make me feel lighter and give me energy, instead of wearing me down?”
The ones who put you down, take away your energy, hold you back, make you lose your confidence or just are not good for you – you have to let them go!!! I know it´s not easy, because many times the person who has the most negative influence on you, is the one you love the most. Is the one you want to save.
But you cannot save anyone, until you haven´t saved yourself first.
So, let them go and finally they will go. Do not be afraid of losing everyone and being totally alone. This is just temporary. This is good! New people, inspiring and loving people, cannot arrive unless you make room for them. They need a free space to occupy, so they could shower you with love and affection that you deserve.
* I need you in my life, because I´m afraid of being alone – that´s the voice of the ego. That´s the source of never ending pain.
* I want you in my life, not because I desperately need you, but because you make my life even more beautiful than it already is – that´s the voice of the heart. That´s the source of fulfillment.
You are not alone! Many before you have done it, including me.
And with all my heart I´m telling you – it was SO worth it!!!