The last thing you need to do is to try to be ‘good enough’ for someone else. You don’t have to put in so much effort in the way you look, talk or the way you eat. You don’t have to worry about how your hair looks when you wake up or how you terrible you look when you’re sick. You don’t have to shave your armpits or down there if you’re not comfortable. You don’t have to put on tons of make up to impress someone. I know it’s imperative. You naturally try to look good for that one person even if you’re not comfortable. Because honestly, none of us sleep in that make up and wake up with perfectly straight hair. No girl shaves her vagina on regular basis because that shit hurts. No girl looks pretty while lying on the bed on the first day of her period, looking like a zombie. If someone loves you, he would look beyond what lies on the outside. He would look at you when you’re doing weird things like eating a sandwich with cheese around your lips or burning your tongue on hot coffee and still find it adorable. He would kiss you despite your bad breath in the morning and so would you. The man who truly loves you will hold you whether you’re wearing a sexy dress or pajamas with minions printed on it. I see so many girls working on themselves but for someone else rather than for their own happiness. I see so many girls crying because they think they weren’t worthy enough. Darling, shorter dresses, visible cleavages, more make up and even more opening up of legs might distract a man but won’t make him yours. If you accept him just way he his, he should learn to accept you too. Eat healthy, work out, buy more push up bras or don’t wear a bra at all, Wear shorter dresses or just wear the comfy t-shirt and jean, put on make up or don’t even apply a lip balm, go eat nicely at a fancy restaurant or eat like you’ve never eaten before: do whatever you wish to. Live your life in whatever way you want to. But please don’t let someone else dictate you how you should live your life. Learn to love yourself so when someone doesn’t love you right, you know when to walk away. Love or relationships are no tests. You don’t need to qualify to be worthy enough for someone else. .