Divorce- My new beginning!
Yes, it is! It is indeed a new beginning for me. After passing through loads of
minds, lots of apprehensions, I finally decide to give ‘myself’ a chance. All
these years, I did as parents said, society said and gave chance to marriage. In
fact we both gave chance to each other. But there are some decisions which
need to be rethought on.
What if I continued to be in this relation? Are we both happy with each other?
Are we both giving happiness to each other? Are we together only for the sake
of being? The replies to these questions shook me.
No, we are not seeing anyone else. No, we are not disloyal to each other. But
it’s not working though we put in loads and loads of efforts to let it work.
The yet other and threatening questions which come up are: Why is it not
working? Did it start to end this way? Are we not meant for each other?
And the only reply I get is: It’s OK!!!! It is completely OK if it is not working.
It is completely FINE if we are not meant to for each other. And it perhaps had
to end this way. And yes it is definitely not the end. It actually means a NEW
With everything thought and discussed, I very well was aware that it is not
gonna be easy. Will have to go through loneliness, missingness, emptiness. But
will eventually get happiness and so I am ready to take the risk.
So, I took a risk to give a new beginning to my life. DIVORCE! When many
people thought that divorce means the end, I took it as a BEND!
A bend towards my new beginning. And as every beginning should have a
celebration, I too celebrated it. I had a party for my divorce, (just a night prior to
my official divorce), wherein I invited the people who didn’t judge on my
decision, rather respected my decision.
The beginning never meant that I would start looking someone else. I have
given time to myself and now it is only me, who is to be taken care of. No
pleasing others, no being a perfect life partner, no proving, no seeking love.
I accept: I am imperfect and I love myself the way I am!
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