🧚🏼‍♀️Amber Love🧚🏼‍♀️@_loveheals

✨Self Love Advocate
✨Motivational Speaker
✨Transformational Life Coach
Aiding in journeys to Self Discovery Self Acceptance Self Love #lovehealsall 💕

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🧚🏼‍♀️Amber Love🧚🏼‍♀️

I’m back. Again 🙂
I made the decision to leave Atlanta for good and relocate to an extremely small town on the west coast. I departed the week before Christmas with very few belongings; Yamari and I shoes and clothes (not many) only what I could fit into a few suitcases. And of course my crystals and however many of my books that I could carry.
I made the decision for several reasons; some of which I will share now, and others which I may open up about later down the line. Ultimately it was because I needed a change. Cutting my hair off wasn’t enough. Eliminating toxic relationships wasn’t enough. I needed something drastic. Something that would shake my entire being to its core and force me to truly evaluate my habits, decisions and values.
I have been a single mother for 9 years now and I didn’t think anything could top how scary that feels, until I decided to move across the country as a single mother 😳 this shit has scared the life out of me, but it has also humbled me in ways I never would have imagined. I have questioned every single thing about my life since I’ve been here. Who am I really? What is my purpose here? Why have I had to endure so much loss and trauma? I’ve cried like a newborn baby. Crossing the bridge through the mountains I saw this rainbow. It was a signal to me that I made the right decision. That I am allowed to feel what I am feeling. A reminder that it’s ok to cry those tears as long as I allow myself to see the rainbow in the end.
So, here I am, once again starting over, but more sincere this time. More willing to expose myself to myself. With more compassion and understanding that I have another opportunity to travel around the sun once more. Completely authentic this time. Not trying to live up to anyone’s expectations of who I should be except my own. 🌈 💕🧘🏼‍♀️


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Mood af! 😳😳😳


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My son and my mother. ❤️
This is still completely unbelievable! 😫🥰


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🗣 #21daysoflovechallenge #21daysoflove 🗣 DAY 14
Create memories!
Never ever ever in a million years would I have thought I’d be spending time w my biological mom and her family, let alone THIS thanksgiving holiday! I had pretty much ruled out any sort of relationship with either one of my parents. I’ve been so serious and completely focused on healing myself so that I can become a better version of myself that the universe found it necessary to reunite me with my birth mother on the death anniversary of my grandmother who raised me while a full moon takes place in Gemini at 0 degrees! Idk if that went over yalls heads but if you can even begin to understand the magnitude of this moment in my life you’d know this is monumental. Almost surreal. I’m 29, my mother is 51 and we know nothing about each other. We are both mature and willing enough to not disregard the years not spent w each other, but to put majority of our focus on how we can create memories that will heal wounds we both had given up on healing. Anyone who knows me knows that one of my biggest insecurities was the absence of my parents in my life. Creation said I see you out here trying, giving your all girl so we gonna end this year off with you not only facing your insecurities, but healing from all the past pain it’s caused as well. I’m blown away. When you truly put your all into loving and healing yourself, the universe will align things for you beyond your greatest imaginings. A little self love goes a long fucking way.



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🗣 #21daysoflovechallenge #21daysoflove 🗣 DAY 13
Feed the people! 🍲
Food waste is an ENORMOUS problem here in America!! We spend entirely too much in the production of food for there to be so many starving people. If we educated ourselves more on the processes of not only producing our foods, but the way it gets discarded also, we should all be highly ashamed of ourselves. I won’t go into a long spiel about my personal passion, but I will just encourage everyone to be more mindful. Take a look at the waste in your household during this holiday and ask yourself how you can be more productive about it? Thanksgiving is a holiday that promotes gluttony. With so many less fortunate people in the world why stuff yourself until your sick when you can help nourish someone back to good health? I’m not saying don’t eat good, I’m just saying we can do better and it starts with US. Let’s be the change we want to see. I love y’all fr.



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🗣 #21daysoflovechallenge #21daysoflove 🗣 DAY 12
MOVE IN SILENCE! 🤫
I’ve been working behind the scenes diligently to perfect my craft and be able to launch some things that will catapult my speaking, coaching and writing to the next level. There was a point in time when I used to be so enthusiastic that I would share my ideas, thoughts and plans with multiple people. I began to see some real flaw ways in folks once I did that. People will do EVERYTHING but support you. Sometimes it truly is best to just shut the fuck up about your personal shit and make moves solo or with people you can really trust. PROTECT YOUR BLESSINGS! Your shit wasn’t made for everyone. Plot quietly and manifest abundantly. When people see me out and about I know their minds are wondering. I get asked questions constantly about what I been doing and how shit has been coming along for me. I keep it cute and brief. You’ll see. I stopped giving people the privilege of seeing everything that I do. Execute more. Speak less. This shit is chess not checkers and the only time you’ll here me speak is when I say #CHECKMATE 😎



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🤩🙌🏽😻🤘🏽🤤


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🗣 #21daysoflovechallenge #21daysoflove 🗣 DAY 11
I am not an aspiring guru! I only aspire to love myself to make yo for all of the times I was waiting on someone else to love me. That’s all. I cannot teach you what I do not know and if I’ve learned anything on my journey is that we know nothing. Only what we think we know. Almost everything is an illusion. Our thoughts, habits and perceptions create our individual realities so what I know may not be what you know and vice versa. However, love, it’s universal. I’m here to be the person to display all forms of love in a world so full of hate that when you are going through tough times you don’t think you’re alone. I’m only here to love you and the love will do the rest. So on this day, I just want to encourage you to stop looking for answers and #GoWhereTheLoveIs 💕 •


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I love these boys!! It’s not hard at all to tell who the Gemini child is in these pics. Lmao. #King my second child. If no one else in this world understands him, I definitely do. The relationship him and my son share is amazing. It’s hard to get kids not to argue on average, but these 2? It very rarely happens. They operate so well together. King looks up to my baby and Yamari knows it so he def uses it to his advantage sometimes lol. Blood really couldn’t make them any closer. They literally make my heartbeat ❤️


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🗣 #21daysoflovechallenge #21daysoflove 🗣 DAY 10
We have to unlearn everything we’ve ever known and relearn everything we ever truly knew before society taught us wrong. Loving yourself should be free from any conditions or limitations including the length and/or style of your hair. Our ego has a way of tricking us into believing that the physical things we hold onto contribute to making us who we are. While certain things may play a part in the expression of our individual personalities, it does not define who we are. Vanity was once the foundation from which my depression catapulted. I knew that in order for me to heal successfully, I needed to be able to love me fully. Wholly. With or without hair. Some days I’m not feeling myself as much as others and that’s ok bc with each passing day, regardless of what my physical appearance may look like to me, I know that my soul becomes more beautiful and that beauty radiates through my aura and it’s literally felt in my energy. Loving me has never felt better. Short hair and all 😍 💕#Gowheretheloveis #LoveHealsAll #AmberLoveHeals #AmberLove #iAm #TheLoveDoctor #loveheals #lifecoach #transformationalspeaker #lisanichols #oprahwinfrey #iyanlavanzant #garyvee #deepakchopra #spirituality #love #witchesofinstagram #awakening #speakersofinstagram #followyourdreams #trusttheprocess #selfdiscovery #selfacceptance #selflove #journeyoflife #patience #attitudeofgratitude #shorthairdontcare


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