Ambitionz Az A Writah💫✨💜💫✨@cecewriter

God's child. Wes' wife. Baron & Bishop's mommy 👨🏿👸🏽👦🏾👶🏾 Cali Gurl 🌴👐🏾

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Ambitionz Az A Writah💫✨💜💫✨

It was In My Lifetime Vol 1, when I was first introduced to you, I had to cop Reasonable Doubt later, and it was love at first sound for this Cali girl. Happy birthday #Hov #🐐


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“Be careful of who you feed your culture to, because once they’re full, they rarely stop eating.” #okbars 🏹🎯👏🏾👏🏾 #Repost @vanlathan with @get_repost
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Look, i realize thanksgiving is about family. But I’d wouldn’t be me If I didn’t say it. Grateful for all of you.


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Everyday, we’re bombarded with displays of violence and hatred. It’s most vital to love on yourself and those most important to you. 💕


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My Gran always says “don’t put me on the computer” 😩 and I have always listened but today I had to break the rule. I often wonder where I would be without my grandmother. When my parents divorced she took in my mother & her two kids. I lived with her during the most formative years of my life. The devastating heartbreak I felt due to the departure of my father was soothed by her love. She taught me how to cook, forgive, trust in God, how to weather storms, and she did it all with a quiet grace. She picked us up from school, took us to the doctor, made us go to every church service and activity lol. She may be the funniest person I know, and it’s all unintentional. From telling us to, “stop all that snigglin’ and grinnin’” to yelling at my brother to, “stop all that bumpity bumpity” with his basketball 🤣🤣🤣 even today when my son told her happy birthday & she replied, “and happy birthday to you too!” Then we shared a great laugh. I treasure these moments, I’m so grateful for her life, love, and laughter. For being a soft place to land when our worlds flipped upside down. For listening to my pain, anger, and jokes and replying in the way only she can. I couldn’t dream of a better grandmother. Happy birthday Gran! #throwback somewhere between the 1950s or 60s.


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Note to self ✍🏽🌻


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He is all the best parts of me, plus the astigmatisms. 🤷🏽‍♀️ 👩🏽💙👦🏾👓


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Sprinkling #blackgirlmagic on your Wednesday. Serena Williams by @obiaris


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We take Paw Patrol pretty seriously around here. 🐶


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New 👓 same nerd 🤓


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To every #hashtag applicable
#Repost @mrchrisclassic with @get_repost
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I dont believe in any “ism”. ⠀
I also dont subscribe to any phobias; and i dont condone any behavior that would perpetuate women fearing men. ⠀

As far as feminists go, my limited knowledge, yet positive assumption is that true feminism would HAVE to include the mutual accountability of actions and behavior necessary for any kind of intersectional human relationship. ⠀
I’m open to being corrected on that. But that “accountability” that men keep bringing up, sadly finds its way as a deflector while women are sharing abuse and harassment experiences or talking about pay inequality. ⠀

Social media has allowed previously silenced women to express themselves and share their experiences. This has thankfully spilled over into the workplace, highlighting the longstanding harassment women of every age group, race and income bracket have had to endure. ⠀

This outpouring seems TOO much for some men. ⠀

Men seem frustrated that women are using the forum that has now opened, to air out personal grievances, state preferences and identify standards along with pointing out mens collective deficiencies. ⠀

The direct correlation is NOT naturally easy for men to understand. The same way the link between sexual penetration and emotions are not automatically understood without explanation and a desire to comprehend. ⠀

I needed to state that. ⠀

However: ⠀
Fellas we dont get to tell women what doesnt hurt them... or change the subject from their pain to discuss their need to have “accountability” in romantic relationships. ⠀

We MUST at LEAST have the DESIRE to understand women. We owe them that. If we are not quiet long enough to hear them express their pains IN FULL before we start deflecting to what WE THINK is more important (like what “they need to do”) we will never have a functional interaction. ⠀

Dare: ask your mother or sister if they’ve ever been victim of sexual harassment. ⠀

See if its the time to discuss accountability as they’re sharing their feelings. ⠀

Double dare: ask your father or brother if they’ve sexually harassed a young girl or woman. Goodnight. ⠀
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