Attention: Dr. Pawton reporting for duty!⚕️
Dearest Dolly Fam....
As you know Mama Stella was re admitted into hospital on Wednesday. It involved another surgery which removed the infection and was put on IV antibiotics. It’s been an ordeal especially when she wasn’t even expecting the first surgery. However she is back home today and on continued oral medication. There is no loss of feeling in her foot and this second surgery looks like it’s a winner! AMEN TO THAT! Finally! ♀️
For now, I’m taking over her treatments with kisses, cuddles and a fuck ton of wine.
Best prescription ever! She should be back to herself real soon.
I want to say thank you so much to each and everyone one of you for the messages, jokes, comments and constant love.
It’s truly overwhelming to read and know that you are all there when my Mums and I need you the most. It is what true family and support is. Forever grateful Roll on Pride events, Pride parade and a well earned holiday! NOW more happy and exciting news...
Mums have been married for four years this August 08/08/14 but are renewing their wedding vows and getting remarried for their five year wedding anniversary Maybe in America? ♀️ Let the planning commence!!!! The first wedding was incredible but I wasn’t there so this one will obviously be the best! I’m so excited!!!
I will of course, most likely be maid of dishonour! ♀️ #SorryNotSorry#Rainbow#LoveIsLove#Lgbt#PrideMonth
Dearest Dolly Fam,
Yesterday, Mum Stella was rushed for emergency surgery after having glass in her foot for nearly 4 weeks (happened during home renovations) she was told it was all removed 2 weeks ago. They were wrong! Therefore it resulted in surgery, extracting a very large piece of glass from deep inside the bottom of her foot. Please send good vibes for no loss of feeling. It was a shock and not expected and being very nervous of anaesthetic from when her Grandmother died from complications of being put to sleep and having a really rough time with her mental health at the moment, it’s exhausted her and is on strict rest. She’s adamant she will be healed in 24 hours ♀️ Please bear with her while she heals.
Knowing my Mother she will be out taking photos for you as soon as she’s bloody discharged (hopefully next few hours) I have methods in place so she can’t leave the door. Pizza bribery.
She finds hospitals a hard environment to be in so it was a mental battle as well as physical. Mum suffers with her mental health and since coming out to her family, anxiety escalated. The abuse she has endured for being herself has been immeasurable and this all contributed to her mental health being effected. That’s why I came into my Mum’s lives. I was the comfort and I will continue to be my Mum’s main emotional support.
We love you all and wouldn’t of been able to come this far without you.
With everything taking place at the moment in the world I need to say once again that admitting there is something going on, or that you’re not feeling well or you can’t cope is the first step in your mental health journey.
Please speak to someone. Anyone. Your thoughts can be toxic. We know how hard it can be to share them but you are NOT alone. We are here. Be kind to yourself. To one another. Be empathetic. I can’t stress how important it is.
Thank u to this beautiful community for when on those dark days you’ll never know how the messages, meet ups and general communication have been a saviour.
I’m looking forward to being Dr DP when Mum returns home #Love#ItsokayNotToBeOkay#DogMom#MentalHealthAwareness#family
Dearest Dolly Fam.. (Zoom in to find me lol) Just in case you’ve forgotten today this is a reminder that you’re loved and f*cking fabulous just the way you are!
Do something as often as you can to remind yourself you are amazing.
It’s easy to allow all your energy into finding somebody to love you, to accept you, to be proud of you etc. But the most important relationship you’re searching for is the one you have with yourself. Self love is the biggest gift you can give to you. Think of how you care for other people, imagine giving yourself just 10 percent of that energy.
I have so many people reaching out for support on their journey of self discovery. My Mums know only too well how hard it can be to fully love YOU, but trust me you can get there and you are ALWAYS enough. You have nothing to prove to anyone!
Instagram opened up a healing platform to my family when there were very little answers and many questions. When loneliness and loyalty were both questionable and mental health was impacted on all levels.
Your feeling of worthlessness may seem so real, but the message is not true! We are all worthy - worthy of self love, worthy of peace, worthy of acceptance, especially when we are feeling less than.
We can easily speak of our achievements and promote on platforms how “amazing” things are and yes these times are important to celebrate but we also need to take time to sit in the silence, to feel uncomfortable and understand this is as important as feeling great! This is all of you and to be okay means to accept things are simply not okay sometimes. Talk, message and share. I’m always here.
Be your BEST self by knowing there is only ONE you. A unique you. So CELEBRATE YOU! Self love is the greatest middle finger of all time #AmenToThat
Own who you are! I u #DollyLama #SelfLove#YasKween#LoveYourself#BeYou#Love#PrettyCityLondon#Instafam .
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