hari nef@harinef


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hot and burning questions answered : link in bio

2018 New Year Party

i’ve been thinking back on my life and i’ve come to the conclusion that i was definitely blonde the whole time



The Wing

ms. holmes



can't commit (won't commit) so i flake on the nerds in my "i can be anyone" hair 💇🏼 let me know: what is your #hairstatement? more pics coming soon @tresemme #ad


hugo party campaign by pierre-ange carlotti


let them eat avocado toast!


what did everybody eat for lunch i wanna know


they think they know me (but they don't!) so i come through in my "i can be anyone" hair 💇🏼 what's your #hairstatement? check out mine real quick @tresemme #ad


‘I’m so much happier now that I'm dead. Technically missing. Soon to be presumed dead. Gone. And my lazy, lying, cheating, oblivious husband will go to prison for my murder. Nick Dunne took my pride and my dignity and my hope and my money. He took and took from me until I no longer existed. That's murder. Let the punishment fit the crime. Nick loved a girl I was pretending to be: "Cool Girl.” Men always use that don't they, as their defining compliment? “She's a Cool Girl.” Cool Girl is hot. Cool girl is game. Cool Girl is fun. Cool Girl never gets angry at her man. She only smiles in a chagrined, loving manner and then presents her mouth for fucking. She likes what he likes. When I met Nick Dunne I knew he wanted Cool Girl. And for him, I'll admit I was willing to try. I wax-stripped my pussy raw. I drank canned beer watching Adam Sandler movies. I ate cold pizza and remained a size two. I blew him, semi-regularly. I lived in the moment. I was fucking game. I can't say I didn't enjoy some of it. Nick teased out in me things I didn't know existed: a lightness, a humor, an ease. But I made him smarter. Sharper. I inspired him to rise to my level. I forged the man of my dreams. We were happy pretending to be other people. We were the happiest couple we knew. And what's the point of being together if you're not the happiest? But Nick got lazy. He became someone I did not agree to marry. He actually expected me to love him unconditionally. Then he dragged me, penniless, to the navel of this great country and found himself a newer, younger, bouncier Cool Girl. You think I'd let him destroy me and end up happier than ever? No fucking way. He doesn't get to win.’ #FindAmazingAmy


absolute worst behavior #poprocks #aperturegala


aperture for i&v with marc in thom #aperturegala


@thetravelalmanac thirteen out now


i had a birthday party my friends are hot and vogue got the tea 🥂 link’s in my bio 🥂 thanks for all the magic

The Campbell

for @harpersbazaarus i got to embody my favorite painting: john singer sargent’s “madame x” in-book i explain my obsession with the portrait: “you can be in a beautiful dress with skin exposed and be sensual but it doesn’t mean you have to lock eyes with the first tom dick or harry you see. maybe you just want to stare at the wall”


it’s my fucking birthday okay baby honey #hn25


throwback to luxuriating in the sweet caress of my girl inez captured by my guy vinoodh 🖤 join me and a whole bunch of cuties on october 30th at the annual #aperturegala to honor i&v as well as kwame brathwaite and my sister zackary drucker 🖤 link in my bio for tickets

IAC Building

the travel almanac number thirteen by julia hetta


The weird sisters, hand in hand,
Posters of the sea and land,
Thus do go about, about:
Thrice to thine and thrice to mine
And thrice again, to make up nine.
Peace! the charm's wound up.



Hey guys

i tried to sneak into this party when i was in college so obviously i was thrilled to host last night 🍧 big smooch to @melzy917 @monsemaison @nycballet and her royal highness @sarahjessicaparker for including me #nycbgala

Lincoln Center

my date my dad my dude my daisy #nycbgala

Lincoln Center

what a way to go! #nycbgala

Lincoln Center

have you ever taken a nap on the way to the club

Lazy Girls Apiary

we hear he is a whiz of a wiz if ever a wiz there was

Gucci Hub