She said it!! #repost from @melrobbinslive - FACT: If you’ve been bitching and moaning for years about your job, your weight, your relationships, your lack of money and you haven’t done the work to change, I think you don’t actually WANT to change.
When you complain - you put the spotlight on the problem. And you wiggle out of taking responsibility for creating a solution. And if you’re good at complaining (like I Used to be) you’ll even get other people to feel bad for you! Boom!
So if you are a complainer. You got two choices. Either, admit that you don’t give a shit about changing. OR, knock it off. Stop bitching TODAY. Focus on the solution. Remember what I always say - if the problem you face can be solved with action, you don’t have a problem.