I actually got emailed by Netflix.... to Netflix and chill tonight. . . . .
For the record... this is not a first date! It can be an extension to the first date if things go really well... but dont start the plan with Netflix and chill. . . . . You're better than that boys and girls. Much love!
When I ask someone out I have a plan. . . . I know where we should meet, where we are getting dinner or to go do something. I know the time, and I know everything I need to be successful on the date. . . . .
Bonus tip for my lack of posting: If it's cold, I bring two jackets. One for myself one for my date to help secure an extension into more time together. . . . . Much love! Comment, share, all the things. I appreciate you all!
How you react when you get a match can tell you a lot. . . . . . If you get super excited... stop swiping... heart is racing... you tell yourself this is your person... put all your hopes and dreams on a collection of pictures and a lame bio... I already can tell you... you're going to mess it up. . . . . .
If you're swiping and you match and you're thinking "cool, this person is cute. They look fun or interesting. " That's the kind of state of mind you need to have. And you'll probably get a date with them. . . . .
It's so different.... between the two states of mind... and the difference is confidence, self control and understanding... you have not met this person yet! They mean nothing to you yet! Don't catch feels before you have a reason to feel! . . . .
This one is a little old. I saw it looking through my pictures. . . . . I laughed pretty hard when she asked me if I knew how to court a woman... . . . . .
We had been trying to get together a while and she was always busy. If someone is always too busy, I will stop asking for their time and move on. She messaged me asking to get together and when I asked to see her, she said she was busy again! She never once told me when she was available! . . . . . I got a good chuckle at her message and never responded again. Self respect is so important to gaining confidence. Confidence people! . . . .
The friend zone is like a constant reminder that you're good person... but not good enough for a certain person. . . . .
This person might try to keep you around. I compare dating to jobs often... and that's because they have a lot in common. Both require work and they both suck sometimes. . . . .
Whenever an employee has been fired by a boss or quit a job, you don't see them going back to be "friendly". They go get a new job and move on in life. . . . . Have confidence, you're way better than friend material. Much love!
I was at school, learning... like an adult. I see the guy that sits in front of me frantically typing. . . .
He was in his computer using a messager service and you can see all the messages are from him. No responses. . . . When you get to this point... you know you're out of your right mind. Stop... take a few minutes. Or if you were me... this is when I know I need to get back on my dating apps. . . . . If a person makes me act like this... it's time to change people. . . . . Much love!
I'm really sorry not to post lately. I am in a really intense programming school and all of my social media accounts are being neglected. I have been on zero dates the last two weeks. Which is a huge change from at least one a day. . . . I will post stories of my failures and in my mind funny moments. You can watch my stories if you want. I think I'm a decent presenter in 10 second snips... my mom says "sometimes you're funny " . . . .
Anyways I do appreciate you all very much. I posted a story tonight if you want to see that. . . .