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How you react when you get a match can tell you a lot. .
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If you get super excited... stop swiping... heart is racing... you tell yourself this is your person... put all your hopes and dreams on a collection of pictures and a lame bio... I already can tell you... you're going to mess it up. .
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If you're swiping and you match and you're thinking "cool, this person is cute. They look fun or interesting. " That's the kind of state of mind you need to have. And you'll probably get a date with them. .
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It's so different.... between the two states of mind... and the difference is confidence, self control and understanding... you have not met this person yet! They mean nothing to you yet! Don't catch feels before you have a reason to feel! .
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Comments always welcome, share, and much love!


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I quit dating and my real job... three months ago and went to programming school. It was a fantastic program. .
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My plan has been to make a dating app centered around stuff that's real. Not fantasy focused like selling "love" or maxing out swipes hoping to meet someone quality that way. .
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I just got the log in part working! It's got a ways to go, but wanted to share a little of what's going on. .
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This is a good opportunity for you to submit any ideas you would like to see. .
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Once it's about ready. I would like my followers to have the first chance at trying it out. Giving me feedback and finding real dates. .
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Thank you all, much love!


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I saw this, thought it was pretty bad ass. Quick and unique gift. .
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No, I was not paid or asked to post this. Genuinely just thought it was cool. Much love!


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If the world was perfect, and you could make any changes to dating apps... what would it be? .
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Please comment what you think the biggest problem with dating apps are and what you would suggest to solve the problem. .
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Thank you for your opinions and suggestions. I appreciate you all!


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This one is a little old. I saw it looking through my pictures. .
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I laughed pretty hard when she asked me if I knew how to court a woman...
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We had been trying to get together a while and she was always busy. If someone is always too busy, I will stop asking for their time and move on. She messaged me asking to get together and when I asked to see her, she said she was busy again! She never once told me when she was available! .
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I got a good chuckle at her message and never responded again. Self respect is so important to gaining confidence. Confidence people!
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Much love!


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The friend zone is like a constant reminder that you're good person... but not good enough for a certain person. .
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This person might try to keep you around. I compare dating to jobs often... and that's because they have a lot in common. Both require work and they both suck sometimes. .
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Whenever an employee has been fired by a boss or quit a job, you don't see them going back to be "friendly". They go get a new job and move on in life. .
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Have confidence, you're way better than friend material. Much love!


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I was at school, learning... like an adult. I see the guy that sits in front of me frantically typing. .
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He was in his computer using a messager service and you can see all the messages are from him. No responses. .
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When you get to this point... you know you're out of your right mind. Stop... take a few minutes. Or if you were me... this is when I know I need to get back on my dating apps. .
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If a person makes me act like this... it's time to change people. .
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Much love!


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I'm really sorry not to post lately. I am in a really intense programming school and all of my social media accounts are being neglected. I have been on zero dates the last two weeks. Which is a huge change from at least one a day. .
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I will post stories of my failures and in my mind funny moments. You can watch my stories if you want. I think I'm a decent presenter in 10 second snips... my mom says "sometimes you're funny " .
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Anyways I do appreciate you all very much. I posted a story tonight if you want to see that. .
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Much love!


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I'm in line doing last minute shopping... like a man! .
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So with gifting I won't gift on my first few dates. It would feel very fake. .
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When you do want to gift and you have good cause it's more about the thought than the dollars spent. (At least not for girls I can afford to date) .
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Put just a little thought into it... remember you're not trying to buy love. Just buy to get a smile. Gifts for smiles usually cost about 10 bucks and a little thought. .
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Comment, share and much love!


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I was talking with my friend @awakenwithkelee and she asked why I didn't talk about this yet... the awful truth is I was saving it for my book. I was holding out.. my bad... she called me out so... here it is...
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When you're out on a date don't ask the same five questions everyone asks... .
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This is why dating feels exhausting and most times we don't get a second date. .
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We are all looking for something meaningful when we go out on a date. No one likes to waste time. However, if you spend your first date asking the same boring questions everyone asks... you've missed the opportunity to really connect with your date. .
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Kelee is pretty great, has a very positive and empowering page. Check her out. .
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Comment, share and much love!


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I am sure this post is a shocker... but it needs to be said. .
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Put the phone away! Do not take it out! Put it on silence and enjoy your dates company. You get 24 hours a day with your phone. If you don't act right, you may get less than an hour with this date ever.
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You honestly do not even want the phone out to be seen. Hide it in your purse or pocket. The reason is if someone sees your phone it's kinda like a distraction anyways. Having your phone on display is almost as bad as playing with it. .
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Sorry about the short post. We can talk theory and examples next time. .
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Comment, share just... not while you're on a date... much love!


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I put a story up about where I learned this. Check it out. .

Safety is so important especially for the ladies. If you can go out feeling safe it'll create a lot of confidence. That confidence will make the date easier to go well. .

Get your dates last name. Find their Instagram or Facebook. Get their cell phone number. .

Give a trusted person all of the information. Now you can feel confident that you'll be safe. .

One thing, you don't need to threaten your date. You can word it in a soft way. Say "before I go out with anyone I need to friend them on Facebook or Instagram." .

No one should have a problem with that. If they do... that's a red flag. .

Comment, share, be safe and much love!


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