What would it be like if others opinions didn't affect you?
Think about it this way... Every opinion, suggestion etc can stick or not stick (if you choose to for it not to). Was having this conversation...what if an opinion was like a paintball and it comes to you but rather than breaking it bounces off. It doesn't break and splatter rather it doesn't affect you because we'll it doesn't affect you.
See others opinions as just that. OTHERS two cents. When you know your worth these opinions don't matter.
I also have probably the biggest sweet tooth and will almost never say no to 🍦
I enjoy working out, body weight based activities are my go to and box jumps are one of my favorite exercises. I really want to start focusing on plyometrics and improve that. Yog also is a go to. Breaking a sweat is more than just breaking a sweat, it helps release any stress and brings me back to being in my body as any sort of unease or tightness that I'm holding.
At 6.5 years old I had open heart surgery and took on the role of being the best at covering it and not talking about it growing up. Why? Super self conscious. The details can go on here but instead I am here to tell you we all have things.
And that... Everyone has a story and your story is your strength. When we step into our power and our voice it helps others do the same. When we are vulnerable it opens so much space.
Own what makes you, you and don't let anything let you feel less than or not enough.
See, the issue IS NOT the handbag, the conversation is your RELATION to the handbag in terms of your own worth and confidence.
See, many times PHYSICAL FILTERS are used to make us feel... - enough - entitled - empowered - better than - more beautiful etc etc etc. 📰 NEWS FLASH, You are ALREADY: *enough and beautiful as you are!
If a handbag or accessory or article of clothing etc...make you accept yourself you better check yourself!
Seriously, think about it... Remember that time when "having" something or an item to be seen as having it made you feel better about yourself?! Yuk, it's only crumbling your confidence and building confidence on a false platform.
ESPECIALLY today. Not only are we seeing so many "filters" we were being saturated with all the "setup" posted and ALL THINGS... *chocolate hearts💝 *roses🌹 *that's ilu theme❤️ Then what happens is people who are not getting the 💝and 🌹feel: *bad *less than *not enough BLAH BLAH BLAH
Guess what?! It's time to know your worth and see your authentic self ...not the self that is given all this stuff to prove on one day of the year that "yay I have a Valentine" so therefore I feel better.
See, when you come to a place of true self love and feel centered and grounded within yourself none of this matters or "gets to you." Let be real, some of us buy chocolate everyday ✋😂 Now let's be really real, notice if any feelings of less than etc come up for you today and instead replace them with this... *I am beautiful and worthy as me. I am strong and confident.* Say that on repeat over and over.